onehardlookMar 19, 20191 min readInsomniaThis older poem sums me up in a nutshell: over thinker, dreamer, lover. I love hard but I think way too much about it and it can keep me...
onehardlookMar 12, 20191 min readThe VisitorGrief is dark and powerful and rears its ugly head with no warning. It isn't something to be afraid of, however. I embrace grief as a...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readThe SpiralI wrote this poem the other day when I was spiraling back into codependency. Trying to hold on to something that doesn't want to be held...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readLine DrawingSometimes when I'm doing self-improvement work I beat myself up over things I have done wrong. But when the problem doesn't go away I...
onehardlookFeb 4, 20194 min readMilk from the Hardware StoreI'm incredibly lucky that I have some close girl friends that don't judge me and truly offer unconditional support through tough times. ...
onehardlookJan 13, 20191 min readI am my actions. Photo credit: Oliver Sjöström, Instagram: @ollivves, Website: https://ollivves.com/ Thoughts are not reality. We can be whomever we want...
onehardlookJan 6, 20194 min readTherapyWhen I was younger I never would have imagined that I would become a cheerleader for therapy. Then a difficult situation that I had no...
onehardlookJan 3, 20196 min readPerfectionismOne hard look at perfectionism from infancy to adulthood. Saying Goodbye to Perfection “I think perfectionism is based on the obsessive...