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One Hard Look at..

Line Drawing

Sometimes when I'm doing self-improvement work I beat myself up over things I have done wrong. But when the problem doesn't go away I...

Smart Phone

#lovehard #liveandlove #relationships #originalpoem #smartphone #poetsandwriters #thoughtsonlove #onehardlook #recovery #codependency...

My Valentine

Smoking meat Treasure hunting Giant bubbles Football punting Milky way Frozen nights Camping when the time's not right Nerf gun wars...

The Man with the Italian Sock

A little over eight years ago I was picking up my friend Jon*, from our friend Lisa's house. Lisa* had recently moved into a new house...

Home

Home is where we once came After a very long day But we knew that we'd see you So we waited ...... And waited ............... And waited....

A piece of me

It feels as though you have my limb. I wonder what you keep it in. Does it ever come in handy When you have an itch you cannot reach? Do...

After the Storm

The muddy shores no longer wave as earth churns in the sea. Distant islands hug the blue like it was never meant to be. They hold on fast...

Milk from the Hardware Store

I'm incredibly lucky that I have some close girl friends that don't judge me and truly offer unconditional support through tough times. ...

Losing a Friend

Every time I make a roasted chicken or fettuccine. When I make a mustard-olive oil sauce for steamed artichokes. When I think of...

Love & Codependency

As I am writing this, I am watching the 2009 movie, He's Just Not That Into You. It reminds me of something I've heard often over the...

Youth

Our culture is obsessed with youth. Everywhere you turn we are being sold anti-aging products and shown images of young models with no...

I am my actions.

Photo credit: Oliver Sjöström, Instagram: @ollivves, Website: https://ollivves.com/ Thoughts are not reality. We can be whomever we want...

Rift in the Rye

There's a rift in the rye And it's better, says I Than a bloody wolf howling at the moon There's a man in his chair Who is sipping his...

Sick Days

As a young adult, I thought I was going to be dead by twenty-five. It didn't make me sad to think about, it's just something I had...

Migraine

Trapped inside with a floating shell around me All I feel is pounding in my brain Wrap me tight in the love that somehow found me It's...

Spirituality

When I was a child, probably around 4th grade, my parents told me that I had to explore religion. They suggested Sunday School but said...

I embrace uncertainty.

What lies ahead, no one knows. Tomorrow could bring joy or pain but I am prepared. I embrace uncertainty. #uncertainty #spirituality...

Vertigo

The shimmering light is like an ocean on my bed I feel like I'm floating while I'm drowning in my head My eyes are finally open and the...

Therapy

When I was younger I never would have imagined that I would become a cheerleader for therapy. Then a difficult situation that I had no...

Loneliness

As I was thinking about perfectionism the other day I started thinking about the fear that causes the need to be perfect. If a major...

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